sorry?

Lately i have been thinking....how hard is it to forgive a certain someone or anyone in particular. If done superficially, then it may be easy. But what value is left there?


There is no more the trust that was once there. Now what is left is only false security of the dregs of the so-called friendship.


Only god is capable of true forgiveness i guess. No matter what evil deed that you may have done, if you repent with all your heart and soul and pray for forgiveness then He may grant you forgiveness. 


But as mere mortals we should be the better person and forgive whatever evil or wrongdoings the other may have done. 
However, more often than not, that is not the case.


I have seen grudges being held on for decades and the fires still burn as wickedly if not even more. Blood being spilled and hearts broken because of their refusal to accept things that had happened


Ego is one thing but being stubborn for your own good is another different story nonetheless...


The question is......what do you value most? Ego? or "friendship"?