The easy way would be to just drift through life, carried by the turbulence of its cruel rapids.
Always accepting things that are happening as it is. Never trying to fight back.
I believe, what is life but not a fight to the day we are laid to rest.
Friends may forsake you, family may disown or abandon you and even your own body may cease to function at one point.
That is why (in my honest opinion ^^) that the best person that you can depend on in any situation is yourself. Not your friends (or even best friends) or family....
I realised.....one day, everyone at one point will leave you. No one ever said that its gonna be easy but its always better to face it, chin up even if your heart feels heavy at times. In other words, get your head out of the clouds (at least for a while) and realize this fact earlier on.
Running away from problems won't solve it (well most of it) but sometimes its wiser to admit defeat than waste your time on something which you may not care or if it's just plain stupid.
That is why, i find it curious as to why some people are fully dependent on other people in order for them to thrive. Like some sort of parasite, sucking on the nutrients of the host, draining them of vital life energy.
Ok, alright i know I sound kind of selfish and egoistic but being a burden to another is another thing totally.
If its up to me, I won't really ask for help cause I feel like as if i 'owe' someone a favour or something. God knows the type of people these days....always looking to use another for their own ulterior motive...
But then....there are some people that have the so-called 'frenemies'.
For what reason, I don't know and will never know anyway. Its just against my principles.
If for whatever reason it may be that i dislike you, i would just stay away from you....less contact less unnecessary feelings involved
Oh wait a minute, i know why.......they love DRAMA cause they have nothing else to do :P
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