Logic is a state of mind produced through reason and acquired knowledge with or without attaining any experience before hand.
A conversation with a certain friend got me thinking about the importance (or not) of the mentioned values.
As a person lacking in basic common sense at times (hrm....this explains my hatred towards physics) I sometimes tend to follow what life experience have taught me.
You tend to make many mistakes throughout the journey but then, no one's perfect.? Even if we did stumble across any obstacles, its the fear of humiliation of admitting you've done something wrong that is most difficult to overcome.
The best thing that you could do in this situation is to ignore them and just focus on what you could do for yourself to make it better.
With failure, you would truly appreciate those around you...their support unwavering,
Finding the confidence and resolve to better improve yourself whilst ignoring judging eyes
Sure logic makes us reason all the pros and cons of any situation by analysing and predicting the outcome theoretically. But that's where it stops. Its all in THEORY.
Logic tells us that we should avoid things that can hurt us.
Logic makes sure that we meet all the basic needs required to be alive
but if its up to logic to decide how life should go then...
Why bother making friends? Most people are just looking for other people to use in one way or another. Experience showed me this again and again. But then again....why do I keep making the same old mistakes? Where is the logic in here???
Is it my persistence to believe that there is still good people out there somewhere in the world. That just because you have some dignity and moral values you would expect other people having the same as yours. Sadly its not the case in 99.9%,
The LOGICAL way of thinking in this case may not win me any awards for best friendship ,but it remains true to what is called surviving..
Call it friends with benefits or call it a win-win situation, but using people for our benefit as well as theirs seems to be the only kind of friendship that exists now. The length of this so-called friendship lasts as long as the other is deemed useful to the other person. Once one is considered a liability, unable to provide any services to them, you will then be cut off, drifting away like a ballon into the unknown. Whether you 'pop' along the way is none of their concern.
.....but then again, experience taught us that nothing is permanent in this life. No matter how good (or bad) things are at the moment, its not going to be forever. Teaching us the value of the present before it becomes a mere memory.
So logic may avoid us from getting into any trouble or misunderstandings but experience is what sets us apart from the rest. Having many 'awesome' stories is always a good thing. It can be used as a:
2) killer of awkward situations
3) pickup lines (LOL)
4) swapping stories with friends
5) sharing a moment with a stranger you've just met
6) makes you a less judgmental about things
7) gaining precious life experience
That aside, I don't think it is that wrong to make a few mistakes in your choices that you makes, sometimes the mistakes will guide you to the right path. Maybe when you get to where you want, you won't be the same person as you were in the beginning. You will probably lose some friends, loved ones and even a part of you in the process.
My childhood friends have even mentioned that i have somewhat change through the years.
I can't blame them. But so do they.
Its nothing wrong, its just growing up.
